The best lights to run for night/rainy driving as mentioned will be the yellow ones 3-4300k (oem). Unfortunately these are not krispy and look like poo.
A lot of people run them in the 5-6000k range. Personally, I'm running 6000k in my lo-beams, hi-beams, and fog lights. I recently completed my angel eyes as well and it's a close match but not perfect. You can match the color temp all you want but the way it is reflected/projected will change the look too.
For example my hi and lo-beams although the same color temp, do not look the same. One of the reflectors was designed for HID, lo-beam, where the other was not, hi-beam. The same goes for the fogs. Installing a/m isn't advised but a ton of people do it. A lot of people will adjust how there headlights are aimed to adjust the glare, but it's still going to be there.
Probably more than anyone cares to read but wth.