NM, just checked the service manual and it says if the leak is between the tube and the nut then the line needs to be replaced. It seems to be leaking there and not between the nut and the pump so I guess I get to buy more parts! :wrench
Well the VSS was the problem.... only it wasnt the problem.
When I took off the old one it was a little wet with trans fluid. It was readily apparent the o-ring on the old VSS was cracked and leaking a very minute ammount. The last 1" of exposed wire no longer has a jacket on it and the wires were touching, guess the heat and trans fluid ate the wire jacket where it was not protected by the wire loom.
Check the trans harness. If your's was like mine, it was oil soaked and was shorted out. Caused all kinda issues, check trans, gear data error, no shift, steering wheel and seat moving without warning while driving, dead speedo, check engine light.
Well in my idiotic defense when I went under there to look I didn't see the exposed wires cause they were filthy so they looked like they still had their jacket on them. Wasn't until I had the plug in my hand that I saw the actual issue. I pealed the loom back till the end of the exposed wire and cleaned then off and taped them up. In the future I may get the initiative to cut the harness down and cut out the wires and find some new plugs and do it the semi correct way. Should last a few years the way I did it though. Its not perfect but since I don't have new plugs I couldn't think of a better way.
I am open to ideas from anyone though.