MonsterMark
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Instead of teaching sex to kindergarteners, why don't we get the crap off TV . I cringe everytime a commercial comes on.
Instead of teaching sex to kindergarteners, why don't we get the crap off TV . I cringe everytime a commercial comes on.
Instead of teaching sex to kindergarteners, why don't we get the crap off TV . I cringe everytime a commercial comes on.
No one is teaching sex to kindergarteners as part of school curiculem, if it was offered, the parents would still have control.
It's rather clear you have no idea what a Sex Ed class entails, because abstinence is part of the class and having sex isn't encouraged.
How does safer sex practices and STD education send an "unspoken message about promiscuity being okay?"
They are allowing it to be taught, and the parents have to "opt out". Even if you are going to allow sex ed to be taught to kindergardeners, it should be a purely voluntary thing. Not something that requires you to take action to opt out of it. Parents would have more control that way...
It honestly blows my mind that people are actually arguing the merits of sex education to kindergarteners. That's really reaching and it simply shows me the extent to which people will support Obama on whatever he wants. Is there anything he stands for that you liberals (no offense meant) oppose? I don't know of any conservative on this board who supports Bush or McCain in every area. Please give me something so I can rest a little easier tonight.
That's not what I'm reading in this thread. Do you disagree with Obama on anything?No one is arguing for sex ed to be taught to kindergarteners. You can now rest.
You clearly do not know what you're talking about. Sex Ed isn't an "opt out" course, the parent(s) has to literally give written permission before the child can sit through the course. If anything, it's an opt-in situation, any child that does not have the release form, is taken to the library (usually) to do homework and such.
Here is the issue:
Most parents don't want their children having sex. They want their kids to wait at least until they are 18 (or, more vaguely, "old enough"), or to wait until a serious relationship or even marriage.
Now the school comes along giving sex ed. In those classes, they don't re-enforce that message from the parents; instead trying to play it neutral. They mention abstinence as a "viable alternative" but are very careful to not seem like they are promoting it. They present options for having "safe sex" as well, including demonstrating the use of a condom, etc.
Essentially, the kids are recieving mixed messages. In the kid's minds (being immature and thuse exceedingly self centered, and concerned more about immediate gratification), the message they get from the school is that promiscuity isn't bad, it is just a different choice and an "alternate lifestyle". Basically, the message that sex ed sends is that promiscuity is acceptable.
If the school is going to get involved in something like sex ed, then it should re-enforce and reflect the parent's lessons to their kids and values they try to impart to their kids. If it is not re-enforcing those values, then it is effectively countering them, considering the audience in those classes.
Having the "opt out" option only puts the added burden of peer presure and being ostricized on the kids who opt out and the parent's who chose to exclude them.
If anything, the class should be completely voluntary. You have to sign your kid up for the class.
My error then... I guess it varies by state, in California (when I was in school), no child is allowed unless he/she has the written authorization from a parent(s) or guardian. I find the Illinois system flawed. Then again, I check in with my school's curiculem, so it wouldn't be an issue for me.sorry - to be fair - in Illinois the law does read...
No pupil shall be required to take or participate in
9 any class or course in comprehensive sex education if the
pupil's his parent or guardian submits written objection
thereto, and refusal to take or participate in such course or
program shall not be reason for suspension or expulsion of
such pupil.
Sex Ed isn't an "opt out" course, the parent(s) has to literally give written permission before the child can sit through the course. If anything, it's an opt-in situation, any child that does not have the release form, is taken to the library (usually) to do homework and such.
That's not what I'm reading in this thread. Do you disagree with Obama on anything?
They don't "promote" sex, just as they don't promote abstience. With the exception, abstience is "promoted" in the sense that it is shown as the only way to 100% guarantee against STDs and pregancies. While sex is promoted by showing pictures of a vagina covered in genital warts etc.
Your guessing that the children in Sex Ed learn "promiscuity is acceptable"
Being "ostracized" now, you don't think that's a bit of an exaggeration?
I'm reading that's what you're claiming. So you do agree with Obama on everything then?Read through it again? No, he is the Golden Calf.
You simply cannot acknowledge that there may be some unintended and indirect message that the kids will recieve, can you? You keep mischaracterizing my argument...
I know how children think, in general. I used to work at a jail for juveniles, I have 5 cousins ranging from the 6 to 14, my closest friend has a kid and my mother works at an elementary school. Not to mention the fact that only 10 years ago, I was 18 myself.
You could call it a guess, but it is very well educated guess, based on a strong understanding of how kids think and interpret things...
Them getting a message of promiscuity as acceptable from sex ed is much more likely then not. Especially considering how a childs thought process is more focused on spinning things to their own immidiate self interest and gratification.
It is a very real possibility, especially with kids. If you don't think so then you don't know much about kids...
you simply cannot acknowledge that the children won't receive whichever unintended or indirect message you're trying to imply. That seeing a condom going on a banana and learning about gonorrhea won't act as a catalyst in them having sex when they normally would not have.
Some children are going to experiment with sex regardless, it's a strong natural urge, Sex Ed, Abstinence Only or a combo aside, correct?
A few teases and jabs from a few peers because little Billy's parents didn't want him in Sex Ed doesn't qualify as "ostracized"; you're making a mountain out of a pimple here.
Each class or course in comprehensive sex education offered in any of grades 6 through 12 shall include instruction on the prevention, transmission and spread of AIDS.
Each class or course in comprehensive sex education in any of grades K through 12 shall include instruction on the prevention of sexually transmitted infections, including the prevention, transmission and spread of HIV.
Course material and instruction shall teach honor and respect for monogamous heterosexual marriage.
Course material and instruction shall stress that pupils should abstain from sexual intercourse until they are ready for marriage…
[Classes] shall emphasize that abstinence is the expected norm in that abstinence from sexual intercourse is the only protection that is 100 percent effective against unwanted teenage pregnancy [and] sexually transmitted diseases…
Course material and instruction shall include a discussion of sexual abstinence as a method to prevent unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.
Course material and instruction shall present the latest medically factual information regarding both the possible side effects and health benefits of all forms of contraception, including the success and failure rates for the prevention of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, including HIV…
Course material and instruction shall teach pupils to not make unwanted physical and verbal sexual advances and how to say no to unwanted sexual advances and shall include information about verbal, physical, and visual sexual harassment, including without limitation nonconsensual sexual advances, nonconsensual physical sexual contact, and rape by an acquaintance. The course material and instruction shall contain methods of preventing sexual assault by an acquaintance, including exercising good judgment and avoiding behavior that impairs one’s judgment. The course material and instruction shall emphasize personal accountability and respect for others and shall also encourage youth to resist negative peer pressure. The course material and instruction shall inform pupils of the potential legal consequences of sexual assault by an acquaintance. Specifically, pupils shall be advised that it is unlawful to touch an intimate part of another person as specified in the Criminal Code of 1961.
This entire angry rant is filled with BS. Completely filled with it. Especially your stupid guarantee. I'll bookmark it and come back when it happens, just so I can say I told you so.This insipid article just rehashes the same weak arguments you guys have been making and then jumps to the same crazy conclusions without anything to back it up. The bill DOES NOT MANDATE teaching sex ed. It mandates what must be included in the curriculum IF sex ed is taught. The choice of teaching sex ed or not is left to the local school districts. And I can guarantee you that if a local school board mandated teaching kindergarteners about condoms, the board would be tarred, feathered, and strung up on a flag pole.
Actually, he does a good job of showing you just that. Why don't you show me where the article is wrong, specifically, instead of painting with your weak-assed broad brush.Your article is complete and utter BS. Show me where I'm wrong about it not MANDATING sex ed for kindergarteners.