Pipe down killer... if you paid attention to what I said, I USED to be a mechanic. My profession now is in the realm of law enforcement and I have the day off. And petty rants? You must be referring to the SINGLE objection I took to wheels being called rims.
If you believe everything the mechanics and the dealership tell you... well, good luck! (they misdiagnosed your problem once already and their theory of increased load can't be wrong?)
I'm not arguing that the engine itself is not experiencing an increased load do to cycling a dead cylinder. But that increased load does not like-wise raise for your coil. If one injector fails, does it cause the rest to fail? That's essentially the same problem, just going from an ignition problem to a fuel problem. Injectors contain electrical coils as well called a solenoid; the failure of that solenoid will not cause the rest to fail, or work harder. The job of an ignition coil is to provide a spark. That coil will provide the same amount of energy for a given charge time and supply voltage, every single time for the serviceable life of the coil. There is nothing that will change that; even grounding out the coil doesn't change that. What that does is increase resistance through the coil, which in-turn generates heat and causes the coils inside the unit to fail. If you don't believe me, give the tech guys at MSD a call: 915-855-7123 (7-6 MST). Ask them if one bad coil on plug will cause other units to fail; after-all, they actually manufacture ignition coils.