cammerfe
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Life
I've puzzled over this whole issue for years. And I believe that regardless of the subject, if you approach with a closed mind you're better off to not approach. That means that I have to be willing to have my mind changed if the facts go against anything I've held.
A few facts (taken from the viewpoint of a degreed Sociologist.):
Although our society is sliding closer to secular all the time, we, at this point, can still look back on a long history of western society being religiously oriented. And even though at times society was very strictly, even harshly governed, there is no indication of a practice of funeral activity regarding any miscarriage or stillbirth prior to, at the very least, a close full term.
We can therefore deduce that regardless of any doctrine to the contrary-('blood')-there was never an honest finding that the result of the miscarriage was a human. In fact, even if you go outside western religious practice you don't find, for instance that a miscarried foetus is sent down the Ganges in a properly bedecked boat. American Indians didn't erect a bier of saplings for a stillbirth, and The Vikings didn't send a foetus out to sea in a longboat with a full accoutrement of swords, helmets and axes.
In present society we do not have a funeral when a woman miscarries.She very rightly grieves, but aside from expressions of sympathy, that's the end of things. Society has no ceremony in regard to the remains. It's most likely disposed of as is other surgical detritus---by unceremonious cremation.
I have therefore come to a comfortable conclusion for me---The crossover point is viability.
An acorn is not an oak tree. There's probably a crossover point in the shoot-sapling stage, but an acorn is an acorn---a POTENTIAL oak tree. You can't make a chair out of it.
And although I'm comfortable with my position, I'm a man. So I'll always have to bow to Foxy. She has what it takes to be a mother. The most I can do is to support her from my second place status.
I am irretrievably a Conservative--- but intellectual honesty has led me to this place. God gave me the ability to think and here I am.
KS
I've puzzled over this whole issue for years. And I believe that regardless of the subject, if you approach with a closed mind you're better off to not approach. That means that I have to be willing to have my mind changed if the facts go against anything I've held.
A few facts (taken from the viewpoint of a degreed Sociologist.):
Although our society is sliding closer to secular all the time, we, at this point, can still look back on a long history of western society being religiously oriented. And even though at times society was very strictly, even harshly governed, there is no indication of a practice of funeral activity regarding any miscarriage or stillbirth prior to, at the very least, a close full term.
We can therefore deduce that regardless of any doctrine to the contrary-('blood')-there was never an honest finding that the result of the miscarriage was a human. In fact, even if you go outside western religious practice you don't find, for instance that a miscarried foetus is sent down the Ganges in a properly bedecked boat. American Indians didn't erect a bier of saplings for a stillbirth, and The Vikings didn't send a foetus out to sea in a longboat with a full accoutrement of swords, helmets and axes.
In present society we do not have a funeral when a woman miscarries.She very rightly grieves, but aside from expressions of sympathy, that's the end of things. Society has no ceremony in regard to the remains. It's most likely disposed of as is other surgical detritus---by unceremonious cremation.
I have therefore come to a comfortable conclusion for me---The crossover point is viability.
An acorn is not an oak tree. There's probably a crossover point in the shoot-sapling stage, but an acorn is an acorn---a POTENTIAL oak tree. You can't make a chair out of it.
And although I'm comfortable with my position, I'm a man. So I'll always have to bow to Foxy. She has what it takes to be a mother. The most I can do is to support her from my second place status.
I am irretrievably a Conservative--- but intellectual honesty has led me to this place. God gave me the ability to think and here I am.
KS