so we all know now, i got it to work, the icm(ignition control module) under the driverside shock tower has the 4 coil driver outputs to the coil packs- 2 on each coil- and if you splice into any one of them it will work i used the tan/orange wire, the tan/yellow wire has no signal, because the stock signal is actually used for more than one purpose like more than one gauge, so the aftermarket tach dosent know how to read the signal, that is what i thought to begin with. but it works and i tapped into the light that surounds the ciggaret lighter so it works with the auto headlights and works with the dimmer switch too, but thanks alot guys, i put up some pictures of how i mounted it , that was a bitch!!
By the way i have a '93 black on black bought it w/80,000