I had this problem, where a touch of the wash button activates the wipers but the fluid pump does not energize. I also pulled that fender liner and investigated. I hot wired the pump and it runs, but there is no voltage sent to the pump (or ground, whichever is switched) so I have a good pump but a bad FEM or DDM or some module. Funny enough, this has been the case for 2 years. I solved it with a universal spray bottle filled with Prestone windshield de-icer. Rotate the variable adjustable nozzle to shoot a stream and stop the car, shoot the windshield with that spray, then the rain sensing wipers do their thing! Low tech, low cost, and we are good to go. Never really had to pull over during a drive for this, so it is routine startup maintenance whenever the glass looks dirty.