Often the CEL light wont come on until you REALLY push the engine..ie the braketorque referenced above.
On a V8, it's a moderately difficult job, mainly on the drivers side due to all of the components in the way. But if you can change brakes, rotors, and other general maintenance, you should be able to do this. Give yourself several hours, plenty of light, and the right tools.
As far as Motorcraft parts, I disagree. AutoZone and/or AdvanceAuto used to carry the Visteon Coils for around $40 each..and if I am not mistaken, Visteon is a supplier of O.E Ford/Lincoln products.
If it were me, I probably would not waste money changing ALL of the coils. I'd give her some full throttle runs, and try to get that CEL light on first so you can tell which one(s). are actually bad.