Kevin, try this....
Get out on the freeway, get up to your normal cruising speed.. then turn off your overdrive.
The RPM's in 3rd gear at cruise speed with stock gears will be almost exactly IF not exactly what your RPMs at cruise speed in 4th gear with 4.10's
We compared my friends 410 car with my car when I had stock gears in this manner and the RPM's were literelly identical.
So give that a shot... when you turn the overdrive off, if the RPM's aren't too high for "your personal preference" then 410's are the gear for you.
I went from the stock 307 gears to 373's and.. IMHO it was a waste of money for the MINUTE gains..
go 410's or higher, otherwise your not really going to be pleased with the outcome, or the expense.