TheDude
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Why do "Dave and Brad" have to prove anything to you in the first place? That is the better question.
Because "Adam and Steve" are demanding a special set of rights. If you'd read Shag's evidence on burden of proof when making major changes to society's rules, you wouldn't be asking this question. Please pay attention.Why do "Dave and Brad" have to prove anything to you in the first place? That is the better question.
Because "Adam and Steve" are demanding a special set of rights. If you'd read Shag's evidence on burden of proof when making major changes to society's rules, you wouldn't be asking this question. Please pay attention.
who are Dave and Brad?
Dude. You're not reading the thread. Shag has already gone into this in great detail. For you to re-ask the same question is disrespectful if not downright lazy, and if I were Shag I wouldn't waste time responding. Again, read the thread, most notably the last 2 pages.A hypothetical pair of homos who want to be married and feel they shouldn't have to prove anything to straight people.
On that note though, what should they have to prove to satisfy this "burden of proof"? Their love for each other? Their commitment? Undying loyalty? What would satisfy?
I assume you are trying to imply that my argument is a false analogy. However that is not the case in regards to my argument to counter your claim that the burden of proof dictated by the precautionary principle is a "catch 22".
You can disagree on a opinion you can never prove to someone there opinion is wrong.And how can you claim that there is "no burden of proof"?! If there is no burden of proof then there is no argument or debate. A burden of proof is inherent and implied in any debatable disagreement.".
The question then comes down to where the burden of proof should lay. Both sides want the burden of proof in their favor, but there is a logical place for the burden of proof and illogical places for that burden.
Then how can you not logically put the burden of proof against change in order to avoid unnecessary reckless change that causes irreversible and severe damage to society?
That is part of my point; you can't do a full cost/benefit analysis on a proposed change at this level (maybe I didn't make that clear, sorry). That is why you approach that change with caution and logically set the burden of proof against that change.
You can look at some of the potential costs and benefits, but not all. That is why places where that proposed change has been tried are very relevant to the discussion.
Impossible to do when your dealing with people and opinions.I am not trying to make anything harder. I am trying to keep it as rational and reasonable as possible; keeping out emotional thinking and irrational fallacious arguments.
You can't demand a link for every statement a person makes that you don't agree with. No one is that fastidious (and this is coming from one of the most fastidious people on this forum).
Besides, what if they got their info from a book, or other non-internet source? They cannot meet your demand for a link, and thus cannot meet the artificially high burden of proof you impose on opposing points of view.
If you wanna challenge a claim it is one thing, but demanding a link is something else.
In demanding a link for every statement or claim you disagree with, you are the one making this harder then it needs to be by disingenuously and illogically raising the burden of proof to an absurd level.
So...you intentionally chose to use an ad homenim argument?
A: There is no spamming being done by me. You have yet to show any examples that meet the definition of forum spamming.
Spam is flooding the Internet with many copies of the same message, in an attempt to force the message on people who would not otherwise choose to receive it.
B: You still haven't shown a logical reason for your irrational disregard of Kurtz. If you are going to hold that position, even in the face of the fact that it is a fallacious and invalid reason to disregard Kurtz, then it is obvious that you cannot be reasoned with and expected to hold a rational discussion
Ok lets toss um both outSo, you will disregard Kurtz for ad homenim reasons, but you won't disregard Slate?! Slate has been shown to be very biased in there reporting; cherry picking information and what not. This article you cite is a prime example. It is very apparent you have an unjustifiable double standard here.
The claims in the article you cite are fully explainable by Kurtz from the article I cited.
Here is what Kurtz said:
Drawing on Spedale, Sullivan and Eskridge cite evidence that since then [Denmark legalizing gay marriage in 1989], marriage has strengthened. Spedale reported that in the six years following the establishment of registered partnerships in Denmark (1990-1996), heterosexual marriage rates climbed by 10 percent, while heterosexual divorce rates declined by 12 percent.
Yet the half-page statistical analysis of heterosexual marriage in Darren Spedale's unpublished paper doesn't begin to get at the truth about the decline of marriage in Scandinavia during the nineties. Scandinavian marriage is now so weak that statistics on marriage and divorce no longer mean what they used to.
It's true that in Denmark, as elsewhere in Scandinavia, divorce numbers looked better in the nineties. But that's because the pool of married people has been shrinking for some time. You can't divorce without first getting married. Moreover, a closer look at Danish divorce in the post-gay marriage decade reveals disturbing trends. Many Danes have stopped holding off divorce until their kids are grown. And Denmark in the nineties saw a 25 percent increase in cohabiting couples with children. With fewer parents marrying, what used to show up in statistical tables as early divorce is now the unrecorded breakup of a cohabiting couple with children.
What about Spedale's report that the Danish marriage rate increased 10 percent from 1990 to 1996? Again, the news only appears to be good. First, there is no trend. Eurostat's just-released marriage rates for 2001 show declines in Sweden and Denmark (Norway hasn't reported). Second, marriage statistics in societies with very low rates (Sweden registered the lowest marriage rate in recorded history in 1997) must be carefully parsed. In his study of the Norwegian family in the nineties, for example, Christer Hyggen shows that a small increase in Norway's marriage rate over the past decade has more to do with the institution's decline than with any renaissance. Much of the increase in Norway's marriage rate is driven by older couples "catching up." These couples belong to the first generation that accepts rearing the first born child out of wedlock. As they bear second children, some finally get married. (And even this tendency to marry at the birth of a second child is weakening.) As for the rest of the increase in the Norwegian marriage rate, it is largely attributable to remarriage among the large number of divorced.
Spedale's report of lower divorce rates and higher marriage rates in post-gay marriage Denmark is thus misleading. Marriage is now so weak in Scandinavia that shifts in these rates no longer mean what they would in America. In Scandinavian demography, what counts is the out-of-wedlock birthrate, and the family dissolution rate.
The family dissolution rate is different from the divorce rate. Because so many Scandinavians now rear children outside of marriage, divorce rates are unreliable measures of family weakness. Instead, we need to know the rate at which parents (married or not) split up. Precise statistics on family dissolution are unfortunately rare. Yet the studies that have been done show that throughout Scandinavia (and the West) cohabiting couples with children break up at two to three times the rate of married parents. So rising rates of cohabitation and out-of-wedlock birth stand as proxy for rising rates of family dissolution.
By that measure, Scandinavian family dissolution has only been worsening. Between 1990 and 2000, Norway's out-of-wedlock birthrate rose from 39 to 50 percent, while Sweden's rose from 47 to 55 percent. In Denmark out-of-wedlock births stayed level during the nineties (beginning at 46 percent and ending at 45 percent). But the leveling off seems to be a function of a slight increase in fertility among older couples, who marry only after multiple births (if they don't break up first). That shift masks the 25 percent increase during the nineties in cohabitation and unmarried parenthood among Danish couples (many of them young). About 60 percent of first born children in Denmark now have unmarried parents. The rise of fragile families based on cohabitation and out-of-wedlock childbearing means that during the nineties, the total rate of family dissolution in Scandinavia significantly increased.
The Slate article doesn't account for the unique circumstances in these countries. It effectively takes the statistics out of context and, by implication, places them in the context of American society and societal norms.
Kurtz makes an effort to place the statistics in the context of the country from where the statistics are from. Now who is showing a lack of intellectual integrity; Kurtz or Slate?
The Slate article is also vague on where it is getting its statistics from, while Kurtz spells out in the article where his info comes from. By your own standard of demanding a source be cited for a claim (usually in the form of a link), Slate is discredited and Kurtz is not.
It is also rather apparent that Slate is cherry picking it's info. Slate is intentionally taking stats out of context, and only citing cherry picked stats to paint a picture that fits their agenda. Not empirically drawing a conclusion based on an full and accurate representation of the facts in context. Kurtz, on the other hand appears to be doing just that.
If both are substance-less opinions, as you imply, then why even cite the LA Times op-ed? It has no substance. This further strengthens the impression of an unjustified double standard on your part.
The view I spelled out is very logically connected and based on facts (in context and accurately represented).
It also nullifies and dispels your claim that there is no logical connection between gay marriage and marriage becoming outdated.
It wasn't a cheap shot. It was an appeal to your intellectual integrity (and by extension, your character) to stop making fallacious arguments.
However, unless you are being facetious (and I am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt on that one), your continued seemingly intentional and habitual use of fallacious arguments and reasoning is suggesting that you have no intellectual integrity to appeal to, at least in the area of gay marriage.
FYI; that is not a cheap shot. That is a reasonable conclusion drawn from the actions you have taken in this thread.
Fossten is correct in characterizing my pointing out of fallacious arguments as an attempt to keep people honest and make for a better and more reasonable debate. I don't think that most people make fallacious arguments intentionally; it is simply an easy trap to fall into, myself included. When you realize what arguments are fallacious and what to watch out for, you can make better arguments.
When people continue making the same argument after it has been shown to be fallacious and invalid, I start to think they are making it intentionally and have a total disregard for the fallacious nature of their arguments. This suggests to me that they lack intellectual integrity.
Your intentional and habitual disregard of Kurtz due solely to ad homenim reasoning, and your continued attempts to shift or obfuscate the burden of proof fall under that view, at the moment.
So I can't inject myself into your debate with halo001, but you can inject yourself into the debate between myself and hrmwrm; as you did in post number 160 (which was the same post you responded to halo001 in)? Another unjustified double standard, it seems.
Shag the Kurtz link http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/003/660zypwj.aspFYI; halo001's quote from that article did provide a fact. he responded to your question of "Do you have any proof ? What percent of marriages are held in a church?" with the quote of, ""All of this in a nation where 74 percent of marriages still occur in church," pondered syndicated New York Times ethics and religion columnist Mike McManus."
He provided all he needed to. Your response was to ignore the fact he provided and refuse to acknowledge it. you simply chose to fallaciously raise the burden of proof to an absurd level by saying, "Its ten years old and nothing there to back up the claim keep looking." The fact that it is ten years old doesn't discredit it, and you are trying to shift the burden of proof to an absurd level.
Yet you cite a Slate article that cites statistics for over ten years ago (at points) as well as not citing the study(s) from where they got there information. But when Kurtz does meet the burden of proof you made up to counter halo001's fact, you disregard him in favor of an article that can't meet your burden of proof.
It is rather obvious that you just disingenuously and intentionally chose to fallaciously raise the burden of proof on halo001 so you could disregard it because you didn't want to accept it. You did the same thing with Kurtz but don't hold any article you cite to the same standard.
How old are you ?^^^^^^*owned*
Since when did you become a forum moderator?
And it appears you like to have the last word, much like a woman. I'd rather be me.
Keep swinging, hrmwrm. It's amusing watching you getting taken apart.
Those are desperate words.
Shag is simply producing well thought out replies to the haphazard, idle statements of others including you. The problem is that you (and others) throw out these generalized, flawed one-liner talking points that are supposed to pass for OMGWTFBBQPWN arguments, and Shag isn't having any of it.
As I've said and he's said, if you don't like getting your arguments critiqued, work on your ability to argue. I admit I could use a bit of work on my own arguments. Shag is literally doing us all a favor by keeping us accountable for the way we present our points.
Slate is a joke
Most of his posts are busy countering the bullcrap spewed by you and hrmwrm. I have yet to see any of your posts in this thread actually reach a point, let alone prove one.
You should be thankful for his posts. You might learn something if you actually read them with an open mind. Your posts, on the other hand, are too short winded, and light on facts and logic.
Oh, and Christianity may be a joke to you. It's your prerogative to think so. I will leave you with this to consider - whether you believe it or not, this will happen one day:
Revelation 20:11-15
11 And I saw a great white throne, and him that sat on it, from whose face the earth and the heaven fled away; and there was found no place for them.
12 And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works.
13 And the sea gave up the dead which were in it; and death and hell delivered up the dead which were in them: and they were judged every man according to their works.
14 And death and hell were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death.
15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
Philippians 2: 9-11
9 Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name:
10 That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;
11 And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
^^^^^^*owned*
Dude. You're not reading the thread. Shag has already gone into this in great detail. For you to re-ask the same question is disrespectful if not downright lazy, and if I were Shag I wouldn't waste time responding. Again, read the thread, most notably the last 2 pages.
Ford nut, with all due respect, you're acting like a troll.
LOL... nope all I was saying is it hasn't happened so no facts.
You can disagree on a opinion you can never prove to someone there opinion is wrong.
Again you can't prove something that hasn't happened yet.
I think this is already been done old USA didn't jump into gay marriage over night.
Relevant yes but no proof on what will happen in the good old USA
Impossible to do when your dealing with people and opinions.
I would think if anybody is going to post a comment under the belief it's fact a link should be included.
Nope I just knew it was coming its one of your big three.
I am not going to spam the same argument over and over.
Both [Kurtz and Slate are showing a lack of intellectual integrity]
Kurtz is doing the same thing to fit his agenda. {cherry picking info, intentionally taking stats out of context, and not empirically drawing a conclusion based on an full and accurate representation of the facts in context.]
I dissagree [to the claim that The view I spelled out is very logically connected and based on facts (in context and accurately represented) and nullifies and dispels your claim that there is no logical connection between gay marriage and marriage becoming outdated]
Cheap shot plain and simple shag.
I disregard Kurtz because he is twisting facts for his far right agenda.
I never said you couldn't all I said is let him do his own bidding let him be a big boy.
Shag the Kurtz link http://www.weeklystandard.com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/003/660zypwj.asp
Is dated 02/02/2004 the slate is dated May 20, 2004 around the same time right that is a little different then 10 years ago
Hummm whos the troll ?
Dude. You're not reading the thread. Shag has already gone into this in great detail. For you to re-ask the same question is disrespectful if not downright lazy, and if I were Shag I wouldn't waste time responding. Again, read the thread, most notably the last 2 pages.
Nobody's whining, and your mischaracterization of my post is a red herring. I simply pointed out that your question has already been answered. If you don't understand that, then I feel sorry for you. If you just don't want to scroll back a page or two, then you're lazy. If you're being deliberately obtuse, then you're trolling.Dude, just shut-up already. You're not Shagdrum, so it doesn't matter what you would or wouldn't do here.
Do feel free to answer my question from your point of view if you like, in fact, it would have been nicer if you just did that in the first place instead of whined.
A hypothetical pair of homos who want to be married and feel they shouldn't have to prove anything to straight people.
On that note though, what should they have to prove to satisfy this "burden of proof"? Their love for each other? Their commitment? Undying loyalty? What would satisfy?
the only people making it an issue are the nay-sayers.
Does that somehow disprove Fossten's claim of your acting like a troll?
A Troll is a person who just loves to waste, either intentionally or unintentionally, the time of other people on a newsgroup, group, or other Internet Forum. A troll tells people to do this or do that, to go yonder, etc. because they are too good to do the work themselves. Never will a troll put any effort into their replies. And, if you actually believe these people you will end up wasting a considerable amount of time going on a wild goose chase.
You are often so quick to call people bigots. It's a rather distasteful character trait. If you had left out that remark, your post would have appeared thoughtful and inquisitive. Instead, it's tainted with your ad hominem which, by the way, is ridiculous.Rather petty and clearly shows a bigoted standpoint
I don't know whether or not you do it at a whim, but you do throw it out here more than anybody else does. As far as character assassination, I call em as I see em. You calling Shag a bigot is quite distasteful, I'm certain not only to me. The fact that you've called me a bigot in the past only strengthens my point. If you can't make an argument without ad hominem, then (as you put it) shut-up already.You're funny. The only other person I've accused of having a bigoted view on something (mind you, not making a blanket "you're a bigot" statement) has been you I think. So you fail with your "often quick to call people bigots" remark, as it certainly isn't something I do at a whim. I'll take the rest as a compliment, thank you, even though you're attemtping a character assassination.
You are often so quick to call people bigots. It's a rather distasteful character trait. If you had left out that remark, your post would have appeared thoughtful and inquisitive. Instead, it's tainted with your ad hominem which, by the way, is ridiculous.
Definition of a bigot: Anyone who is arguing with a liberal.
shagdrum your a bigot
You said that you (and most of America) have no problem with gay couples receiving the same exact benefits of a hetero married couple, so obviously, you don't feel that would be the negative hit on American society which you claim gay-marriage would have. (correct me if I'm wrong here, but you did say you 'd have no problem)
Rather petty and clearly shows a bigoted standpoint, a "they want to be like us!" attitude. Because what is marriage besides a set of legal rights granted after a ceremony (which is optional) and filling of paperwork? Some claim a spiritual connection*, which in that case, wouldn't (logically) be affected by anothers marriage.
As far as the gay community proving that gay-marriages wouldn't be a negative, Massachusetts isn't crumbling and though it is still early in California, there is no reason to indicate that the state will suffer in some way because of a few extra marriage certificates.
If you stand on the ground that gay-marriage will somehow contaminate the "sanctity" of hetero-marriage via some osmosis-like effect, there is no way to prove or disprove that, it's a rather silly concept too. Of note, Las Vegas and it's $50.00/5-minute marriages have done more damage to the institute of marriage than anything else. [so far...]
but from a logical standpoint, there is no reason to believe that allowing gay-marriage would somehow stop hetero couples that wanted to be married from suddenly saying "no, if two men or women are doing it, we don't want to be part of that institution now", which in turn would further illegitimacy and crime rates etc. etc. etc.
All the data shows otherwise,
divorce rates in Mass have dropped and are (or were in 2006) the lowest in the country, now, not sure if allowing gay-marriage had some intrinsic affect on this somehow, but it does indicate that it didn't have a negative affect.