OK a few yrs ago i found this kit that would let you lower the mark 8s air bags to any way you wanted and now i cant find it does anyone know where i can get it and what are some other mark 8 websites

You have the Rays switch which drops it all the way, the Module 8 which uses a rotaty potentiometer, and the ASHAM8 which has up/down switches and a 10 position LED display and looks almost OEM.

Ray is on here as 1wykdmarkviii or something like that.
http://www.module8.net/
http://members.chello.hu/breda.belarobert/asham8/