i looked and looked and i cant find it! im feeling a bit ignit(gnorant) right about now.

if memory serves, back left of the engine. could be wrong tho.

Facing the engine,Towards the back left.Its kinda down there near the firewall.Remember check the fluid after the car is hot and you shifted through the gears a few times.Take it around the block then check it.

if i have to add some fluid, i pour it in the dipstick tube right?

ya, funny it's in the same place about as old ford witch I own too many , but I did have to hunt for it my self.