so i need the grill for a 97 mk8 that is tan inside... seems as if someone put one from an earlier year as it does not work good and doesnt fit flush.. I also need the seat trim for the side of my drives seat were the buttons are... its tan

If you have a 97, there is no way the grill could be from an Earlier year.

97 was the first year for the 2nd generation.

Perhaps it was poorly installed by whoever installed it?